Fall Has Officially Arrived

Hey all!

So it's been a while since I last wrote here (July to be precise), and I guess it's about time for an update. So here goes:

After what was meant to be a simple surgery in May that would have 3 or so weeks of recovery, I found myself having complications and multiple surgeries that lasted from May until September. That meant that I was unable to speak for most of that time, and definitely couldn't have any solid foods. What a drag that turned out to be, and it seemed as if it would go on forever, and then through the grace of God it was finally over.

Stitches came out, cosmetic work was done, and I actually came out better than before. Ha ha. So, it was the greatest feeling in the world when I was able to tell the reception nurse that I was done and wouldn't need to have a follow up for at least 6 months. I walked out smiling and talking to myself, which would look weird anywhere else in the world, except I live in Manhattan, so no big deal. Unfortunately, my dreams of rushing out of the doctor's office and over to Outback Steakhouse for my first solid meal were dashed, as I was told that even though I had healed, I had to take it easy for another couple of weeks. Oh well.

The good news is that I am finally healthy and fit. Speaking of good news, over the Summer I was able to see my friends Ryan Cabrera and Bryan Fenkart perform in concert. I always have a great time with them, and I am always a champion for them both. Shortly thereafter, Ryan embarked upon a very successful tour, and Bryan landed a lead role in a Broadway Musical!

He appears in the Musical "Memphis" which opens officially today, after a few weeks of previews. Bryan has always been one of the most talented people I know and I am so glad the rest of the world finally gets a chance to see it as well. I am super proud of him. If you are in New York, please make a point of seeing Memphis and this very talented performer. BTW, you can also purchase his cd, "Imperfect Man" and I know he is working on a second one as well. Bravo Bryan.

I also got to spend a lot of time with my friends in Sleepy Hollow, and this coming week I am headed back up there for some apple, pumpkin, etc. picking and attending the big open air harvest markets, as well as the reenactment of "The Headless Horseman" story, just in time for Halloween. It should be a blast.

I have a lot of friends in Boston and happen to do a lot of performing there as well as up and down the Eastern Seaboard, so when the opportunity arose to come up to one of my favorite cities and spend some quality time with my best pal Jeff, and my great friend Jake, among other things, I totally jumped at the chance. So I packed up a suitcase and headed on up. While here, I have had a blast, not only performing, but showing off my other professional talent, my culinary skills. I've been having fun cooking for my besties and trying to wow them with something tasty and different as often as possible.

Of course, I haven't taken care of all of the meals, this is Boston, after all, and it would be a shame not to take advantage of the fantastic places around here. Aside from that, it is always great to walk around Boston and take in the sites, like my favorite place, Paul Revere's House and the Old North Church, the Boston Commons, etc. Jeff also got us involved in a tour of Haunted Boston which is pretty cool. It starts in a cemetery at night and goes on for about 90 minutes as you walk around the more colorful and historical parts of the city. That Jeff, always coming up with interesting things for us to do together!

Today we got hit with a surprise snow storm, 30 degree weather and super fast winds. If it lets up and everything goes according to plan, I will be headed back to Manhattan later this morning. If the weather doesn't cooperate, then I may have to stay a little longer. Either way is fine with me, since I love Boston and Jeff so much, and I love my apartment and Manhattan so much. I am happy in either place. So we shall see what the weather shows and thus how the plan goes.

If I can make it back as planned, I have a movie premiere , an interview regarding a new position using my chef hat, a birthday party, not to mention the apple picking, and so on...

So as you can see, things seem to be looking up for me..knock on wood, and hopefully they will just keep on doing so. Halloween is coming soon and that's cool, but I am already looking ahead to November for Thanksgiving and the great meal and company that comes with it.

But as long as it is still October, lets go with the Birthdays: Happy Birthday on the 11th to Mariah, the 18th to Zac, the 21st to Dan, Matt D. and Arkady. May you all have a wonderful year ahead, and I am happy to know all of you and have you in my life.

Ok, that's about it. It's nearly 3 am and if I plan on leaving here in a few hours, I had better try and get a little rest if I can. But I just keep looking out at the falling snow and watching spooky movies on cable...oh well, I'm going to give it a shot anyway. So off I go.

Take care until we meet again, and remember, I'll see you on the B-Side...

Richmond Chandler

Recuperating, July 4th, D-Lounge, Etc.

Hello All,

First off let me express my frustration, as I just typed this blog (and the first version was really long), when during posting, an error occurred and the whole darn thing and an hours worth of typing disappeared for good. Arg! So here goes again, from memory, although it will most likely be an edited version.

First off, I finally had my (hopefully) last surgery on Wednesday the 8th. There is a technical term for what was done, but in essence (and I apologize for being a little graphic), the doctors went in and made an incision in my gums, then proceeded to chip away or shave if you will the bone down to the right shape. Apparently this was necessary after the previous surgeries and re-alignment procedure. Can you say OUCH! I totally can.

Unfortunately, they felt as I had been given painkillers for the previous surgeries, that I must have plenty left over and so wouldn't give me a prescription. The scripts weren't for that many pills to begin with (20) and so only 6 remained, which I have already taken. So, now I am going to have to resort to over the counter aspirin. Ok. Luckily, I have a high tolerance for pain (those of you who know me really well can attest to this), and so I will push through the pain and just be patient. Pretty much all I can do.

Last week, I was lucky enough to see my guys Bryan Fenkart and Ryan Cabrera at Sullivan Hall, here in NYC. They also had a really talented guy open for them named Eren Cannata, who has an awesome CD out. I went with a group of friends and we were fortunated to be VIP guests of the performers, and thus on the fabled "list". Too cool. BTW, Thanks again for that! I took loads of pictures and put them up in albums in the my pics section. Take a look at them if you have a chance.

Over the 4th of July weekend, I had a blast both in Yonkers and then in Sleepy Hollow (which is quickly becoming one of my favorite places). Faye, Billyee, Ariana, Tony and the gang and I all went to the beautiful park in Sleepy Hollow that overlooks the Hudson River by the Lighthouse and had a wonderful barbeque. And although my eating and speaking were limited (not as much as right now mind you), I had a super time nonetheless, spending time with them, playing games, watching the boats and the gorgeous fireworks after sundown. All in all an idyllic portrait of Summer. What a great memory.

Bryan Fenkart will be performing tonight (Friday the 10th) at D-Lounge in NYC. It is located under the Daryl Roth theater on 15th street in Union Square. He will be doing an acoustic set. Also performing, the cast of Fuerza Bruta and members of the band OAR. A good time is guaranteed to be had by all. It begins at 7:30 pm and if you can, please come on down. I hope to attend if I am feeling up to it. The forecast is good, though.

Aside from that, I am just catching up on bed rest, my blockbuster dvds, and of course, my trusty computer. Also enjoying Milkshakes and chicken soup, and anxiously awaiting the day I can have a great steak dinner. Outback Steakhouse, here I come...hopefully by my birthday on August 9th. Anyone want to join me? Ha ha.

Ok, let me run for now. Take care and all of the best.

See you on the B-Side,

Richmond Chandler

Saw the surgeon today...

Hey all!

This is going to be a short one. I saw the surgeon today and as it turns out, things did not heal as planned and there are complications. So, now they have to unhinge my jawbone, shave the bone and re-align it. What this means is that I am no where near being finished or healing yet. Looks like it is going to be a long, silent summer with the eternally boring liquid diet. Oh well, what can I do?

Meanwhile, I'll just wait it out.

Looking forward to Ryan Cabrera and Bryan Fenkart perform on July 1st at Sullivan Hall in NYC. Although I can't really do much, I can enjoy these two favorites of mine. If you are in NYC, get tickets and go. You will not be disappointed.

Ok, that's it for now. Painkillers kicking in. Take care and I will see you on the B-Side!

Chandler

Shuttling and Surgery

Hey there!

Hey all! So I have been shuttling between NYC and Boston having new adventures with my best pal Jeff. All of this to help me keep my mind off of my throat surgery, which is hard for a singer/musician/ and generally outgoing guy like me. In fact the next big one happens this Saturday morning at 9 am ( so cross your fingers and/or say a prayer for me), and of course that means no talking, singing, solid food, etc. for a long time. I am hoping this will all be over and healed by July, but it is looking more and more like August. Still, I will hope for July( or sooner).

BTW, Jeff's new apartment is awesome. The fact that it is twice the size of mine and one third the rent, just reminds me of the only real difference between Manhattan and Boston. In either event, I'll most likely spend a lot of time there in the future (including this summer, I hope).

Hey Bryan Fenkart! I saw you on LAW AND ORDER! Dude, you played a musician named Theodore "Teeter" who got murdered and left in an alley for Jeff Goldblum to find! Awesome! Now we have something else in common - getting killed on screen. Ha ha. Anyways, I am proud of you and looking forward to your concert in July (if I can make it).

Congratulations to Shawn and Mark on Dancing with the Stars. I was hoping for Melissa to win, but I would have been happy either way. On that note, congratulations to Kris Allen for winning Idol, although I really think Adam's voice was stronger - but anyway, they are both so different, and they will have successful careers anyways. Good TV though! Equally cool were the endings of Smallville and Supernatural (which had me on the edge of my seat). And of course, now I am totally bummed that I have to wait until fall for the answers. Ha ha

Hey there's a great Art Deco exhibit at the Main Manhattan Library on 5th ave and 42nd. It's free and totally worth it if you like old movies and such, although tomorrow is the last day, so hurry and go today or tomorrow if you can. Coming up at Lincoln Center next month we have a ton of free big band, dixieland and tributes to Benny Goodman happening. Again, it's free and fun. I'll update you as they happen or you can call the New York Public Library info line at 212-930-0830. Hope to see you there.

See Star Trek!!!!!!

I'm still loving the music of Rooney, Lifehouse and Jason Mraz. And I may confess to a Cheetah Girl or two, but hey, I have a 7 year old god-daughter and a 10 year old niece. :)!

Ok, that's it for now. Talk to you all soon. Take care and cross your fingers for my surgery.

I'll see you on the B-side!

Richmond Chandler